Emma Miller
Palibe mkazi amene sangafune kukhala wokondwa ndi kukhala ndi mwamuna wamphamvu pambali pake. Komabe, moyo pawokha sikuti nthawi zonse umapatsa atsikana zabwino kwambiri - ndi nthawi yoti mutengere tsogolo m'manja mwanu.
Momwe mungapangire mwamuna kukukondani - psychology muzochita
Akatswiri odziwa zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti mkazi aliyense akhoza kukopa bwenzi lake labwino m'moyo wake, chinthu chachikulu - kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino. Muyenera kukhala ndi maginito achilengedwe komanso kukhala okopa kwa amuna. Mutha kuphunzira izi ngati mukudziwa zinsinsi zoyambira zokopa:
- Chidwi - pezani bwenzi lanu lomwe mukufuna, ndikusilira, kusilira;
- Kukhoza kumvetsera - amuna amakonda kumvetsera, choncho phunzirani momwe mungalowe mu mawu ake ndikusunga zokambirana;
- Ukazi - kukopa mwamuna kwa inu mungathe, ngati ndinu wofatsa, wosalimba, ndi dona wovuta - zonse kunja ndi mkati;
- Kusintha - koperani mayendedwe a mwamuna, pezani zokonda ndi zomwe mumakonda, ndipo khalani ngati zomwe mumakonda;
- Chiwembu - musanene chilichonse chokhudza inu nokha, siyani chinsinsi, nthawi zina lolani kuti musafotokoze chinachake, ndikuletsa misonkhano (amuna ngati mawu otsika).
- Mfundo yaikulu yochokera pamwambayi ndi yakuti muyenera kukhala munthu wosangalatsa, wodzidalira, womwetulira, komanso wokongola. Cholakwika chomwe atsikana ambiri amabwereza - ndi "kumamatira" kwa wokondedwa wawo ndikuyesera kumukondweretsa mu chirichonse.
Inde, muyenera kusonyeza kuti mumamukonda mwamunayo, koma izi sizikutanthauza kusiya moyo wanu. Mosamvetsetseka, zoona zake n’zakuti mwamuna adzakhala ndi chidwi ndi mkazi amene amakhala ndi moyo wosangalala ndipo amamulola kuti akhale mmenemo, m’malo mosintha chikhumbo chimenechi kukhala cholinga chake chokha.
