Emma Miller
Kupeza kuyankhulana kwa ntchito ndikosangalatsa, koma pali malangizo angapo opangira chidwi kwa abwana ndi kulembedwa ntchito.
Masiku ano abwana amafuna kwa wopemphayo si kokha ku chidziwitso, luso, ndi zinachitikira, inunso muyenera kukhala okhoza kuchita nokha pa kuyankhulana ndi bwana ndi kukhala otsimikiza mmene ndingathere.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti ayesetse zochitikazo zisanachitike ndikutchula malo abwino kwambiri pa zokambirana za ntchito. Ili ndiye Superman pose, chifukwa imawonjezera gwero lamkati ndikukulolani kuti mudutse bwino kuyankhulana ndi manejala.
Chinsinsi cha kukhala ndi kuyankhulana kwabwino kwa ntchito ndi woyang'anira, ndithudi, ndi khalidwe lodzidalira. Ngati kuyankhulana kukuchitika mutakhala pansi, ndi bwino kutenga "galasi". Pofuna kukondweretsa abwana, wofunafuna ntchito akhoza kunena mosabisa kamodzi pa zokambirana kuti ali ndi nkhawa pang'ono, izi zidzasonyeza kuti wofunafuna ntchitoyo ali wotsimikiza za kuyankhulana.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungalembe bwanji ganyu, ndiye kuti musamachite masewera olimbitsa thupi kwambiri, kuwoloka manja anu pachifuwa, kapena gwirani manja pamodzi. Simuyeneranso kusunga manja anu m'matumba - zimawonedwa ngati chizindikiro chachinsinsi. Komanso, ndi bwino kuti mawondo anu akhale pamodzi osati kupukuta chirichonse m'manja mwanu.
Musaiwale kuti kuyankhulana bwino ndi woyang'anira kudzakuthandizani ndi kumwetulira kwachibadwa - chizindikiro cha kudzidalira, koma musapitirire.
