Emma Miller
Ngokushesha noma kamuva yonke imindeni ibhekana nokungazi ukuthi ingamduduza kanjani umntwana okhalayo.
Mhlawumbe bonke abazali bayasazi isimo lapho umntwana ekhala futhi akunakwenzeka ukumthulisa. Okufanele ukwenze kulesi simo, indlela yokuthulisa umntwana ngemizuzwana emi-5? Ake sithole.
Ikhalelani ingane?
Ngosizo lokukhala baby ikutshela ukuthi kukhona okungalungile. Uma kuziwa endleleni yokuthulisa ingqondo yengane yakho, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela eyenza ingane yakho ikhathazeke.
Ingane yakho ingase ikhale uma:
- ulambile;
- ingane yakho ikhathazekile ngokubhodla noma ukuqunjelwa;
- Udinga ukushintsha inabukeni;
- ufuna ukulala;
- ifuna ukubanjwa noma inyakaziswa;
- umntwana uyashisa noma uyabanda;
- umntwana uyaquleka;
- kukhona okuhlupha umntwana, njengenabukeni noma izingubo ezicindezelayo, noma inabukeni eliqinile
- ukuhlupha umntwana;
- ingane yakho inamazinyo.
Uyiduduza kanjani ingane uma ikhala
- Mthathe umgone bese umcindezela esifubeni sakho.
- I-swaddle noma, ngokunye, mfake.
- Nika ingane yakho ibele, ibhodlela, noma i-pacifier.
- Inyakazise ingane umsindo omhlophe.
- Uma ingane isikhulile, zama ukuphambukisa ukunaka kwayo. Bheka efasiteleni naye noma uvule i-TV.
Shintsha umsebenzi wemizwa ngokusebenza ngokomzimba. Thatha ingane yakho uyigone futhi uyivumele igxumele embhedeni. Noma phonsa ephansi emoyeni.
Indlela yokuthulisa ingane yakho ngemizuzwana emi-5
Kukhona indlela yangempela yokududuza ingane yakho ngemizuzwana engokoqobo. Yaboniswa nguDkt. Hamilton. Njengamanje, ividiyo yendlela yokuthulisa ngokushesha ingane ekhalayo isiqoqe ukubukwa okungaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-56.
Okokuqala, thatha ingane ezandleni zakho bese uwela izingalo zakhe phezu kwesifuba sakho. Cindezela izingalo zakho eziphambanayo nesandla sakho sokunxele esifubeni sakhe bese uphumuza ingane yakho esandleni esifanayo - nge-engeli engama-degree angu-45 phansi. Sebenzisa iminwe yesandla sobunxele esifanayo ukuze ubambe isilevu sakhe, ukuze ikhanda lakhe lingawi phansi. Sekela umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngaphansi kwenabukeni ngesandla sakho sokudla.
Ubambe ingane nge-engeli engu-45-degree, qala ukunyakazisa ingane kancane. Lokhu kungase kube umnyakazo osuka phansi naphezulu noma obheke eceleni. Ngemizuzwana nje, umntwana uzoyeka ukukhuluma.
