Emma Miller
Hoʻomaopopo nā keiki i nā ʻōlelo a ko lākou mau mākua e ʻōlelo ai me ka pili loa, inā he mahalo a he ʻoluʻolu paha. He mea nui e koho i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono a ʻike i nā huaʻōlelo e ʻōlelo ʻole ai i nā keiki i ʻole e hōʻeha iā lākou.
Makemake kēlā me kēia makua e ulu maikaʻi kāna keiki ʻaʻole wale ma ke kino, akā ma ka noʻonoʻo. No ka hana ʻana i kēia, pono e mālama ʻia kahi ea o ka mehana, ke aloha, a me ka maikaʻi i ka home. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pilina hilinaʻi me ke keiki e kōkua me nā ʻōlelo kūpono. E hana pū kāua i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai i kāu mau keiki i kēlā me kēia lā, a me nā huaʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo ʻole ai iā lākou.
5 mau mea e ʻōlelo ai i kāu keiki
ʻO nā huaʻōlelo e ʻōlelo ai i nā keiki he kula haʻahaʻa. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe mākua, ʻaʻole naʻe, ma muli o ka luhi ma hope o ka hana, ka hana mau, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, poina wale i ka haʻi ʻana i kā lākou pēpē. E hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa e kamaʻilio me kāu keiki e pili ana i kona lā, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no kāna mau hana, a mahalo iā ia no kāna kōkua. E kōkua maoli kēia i ke kanaka liʻiliʻi e hilinaʻi a aloha ʻia.
- Aloha au iā ʻoe – no nā poʻe mākua he nui, ʻaʻohe manaʻo o kēia ʻōlelo no ka mea he hackneyed a hackneyed, akā ʻaʻole no ke keiki. Mai hilahila e haʻi iā ia i kou manaʻo.
- Hiki iā ʻoe - ʻo ia ka mea āu e haʻi mau ai i nā keiki kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hana nā keiki i nā mea hou no lākou iho a pono lākou i kāu kākoʻo.
- Ke hilinaʻi nei au iā ʻoe, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au iā ʻoe - e hoʻohui kēia huaʻōlelo i ka ikaika a me ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho ʻaʻole wale i nā keiki akā i nā pākeke pū kekahi.
- Mahalo iāʻoe no kāu kōkua - ma hope o ka hanaʻana, he mea nui i ke keiki ke manaʻo uaʻikeʻia kāna mau hana. E hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no kāna mau hana a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia, ʻoiai he mea liʻiliʻi.
Haʻaheo wau iā ʻoe – hoʻokumu kēia ʻōlelo i ka hilinaʻi i kāu keiki a kūkulu i ka manaʻo o ka manaʻo ponoʻī.
He aha nā ʻōlelo e ʻōlelo ʻole ʻia i nā keiki?
"E nānā i ka maikaʻi o kēlā keiki a ʻaʻole ʻoe." Mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka hana a kāu keiki a hoʻohālikelike paha i kāu keiki me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. He ʻokoʻa kāu keiki, ʻaʻole pono e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe.
"A eia wau i kou mau makahiki." ʻO kekahi huaʻōlelo e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ai kāu keiki i ka poʻe a puni lākou.
"ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, e ʻae mai iaʻu e hana iaʻu." Hoʻokomo kēia ʻōlelo i ka palekana i loko o ke keiki. Akā, hāʻawi i kāu keiki i kāu kōkua.
E hoʻomanaʻo, inā hopohopo ke keiki, huhū, a huhū paha i kāna hana ʻole ʻana, mai ʻōlelo ʻino iā ia. Akā, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke keiki i kēlā ʻano kūlana a hoʻolohe i kāna mau kūleʻa.
He aha nā ʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo ai i kāu keiki?
Mai stoiseysya i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi keiki e hoʻohana i nā ʻano huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi. ʻAe, he kanaka makua nui a koʻikoʻi ʻoe, akā liʻiliʻi ke keiki a pale ʻole. He mea nui iā ia ke ʻike i kou akahai.
E hoʻolohe kāu mau keiki i nā epithets i kāu ʻōlelo: ʻoluʻolu, punahele, gula, daimana, aloha, lā, ipo, ʻo ʻoe koʻu lā, kaʻu mea liʻiliʻi, kaʻu kaikamahine maikaʻi, etc.
Ke kamaʻilio pū me kāu keiki, he mea nui nō hoʻi e kamaʻilio me ka leo mālie a me ke aloha. E ʻike ke keiki i ka leo huhū a me ka huhū o ka makua, ʻaʻole hiki ke hūnā ʻia ma hope o nā ʻōlelo aloha.
