Emma Miller
Ke hopohopo pinepine nei nā mākua o nā keiki liʻiliʻi no ka ʻai liʻiliʻi o ke keiki a me ka ʻai ʻole i ka nui. Ma waho o ka manaʻo maikaʻi loa, hoʻāʻo nā mākua e hānai ikaika i ka pēpē. Akā, hiki i kēia ke hōʻeha i ke keiki. Pono nā keiki liʻiliʻi i kahi ala kūikawā i ʻike ʻole ʻia e nā mākua he nui.
No ke aha ʻaʻole ʻai maikaʻi ka pēpē - nā kumu
Hiki ke ʻai ʻole i ke keiki no nā kumu he nui. Ua loaʻa paha ke keiki i ka maʻi maʻi a i ʻole ka ʻeha o ka ʻōpū. ʻAʻole maʻamau ka Caprices - makemake ke keiki i ka meaʻai ʻono a hōʻole i nā mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine ka hopohopo nui o nā mākua no ka ʻai ʻole o kā lākou keiki a haʻi i kā lākou keiki i ka mea nui o ka ʻai nui. I kēia hihia, hiki i ke keiki ke hōʻole i ka ʻai ʻana me nā mākua.
Nui nā mākua i nā hewa i ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i ka meaʻai a koi i kā lākou mau keiki eʻai i ka hora, eʻai i nā meaʻai a pau ma ka pā, a eʻai i ka meaʻai a lākou i makemakeʻole ai. No ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea a lākou e makemake ai, hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻohana i ka ʻuā a me ka hoʻoweliweli, ultimatums, a me ka huhū. A laila e lilo ke kaʻina o ka ʻai ʻana i mea koʻikoʻi no ka pēpē a ʻoi aku ka pilikia o ka ʻai.
ʻŌlelo aʻo i nā mākua, inā ʻaʻole ʻai maikaʻi ke keiki
- Mai haʻi mau i kāu keiki i ka mea nui a me ke olakino o ka ʻai ʻana - he mea kūlohelohe ia.
- Mai hōʻike i kāu keiki he mea nui iā ʻoe kona makemake a makemake ʻole paha e hoʻopau i ka ʻai. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoikaika i kāu keiki e ʻai me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka blackmail, hoʻoweliweli, ʻuā, a i ʻole nā uku.
- ʻAʻole ʻeli ʻia ka meaʻai i koi ʻia ma ke ʻano maʻamau, no ka mea, ʻaʻole i hoʻopuka ka ʻōpū i ka nui o ka waikawa e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia. E ʻae i kāu keiki e ʻai e like me kona makemake, akā ʻaʻole hou.
- Inā pilikia ke keiki i ka wā ʻai, huli aʻe mai ka spoon, a ʻōlelo pololei paha ʻaʻole makemake hou, pono e hoʻōki i ka ʻai.
- Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pilikia me ka ʻai, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia ʻaʻole hiki i ke keiki ke loaʻa ka meaʻai iā ia iho ma waena o nā meaʻai, a pono ʻoe e hoʻopau i nā meaʻai.
- Ma ka papa papa kuhikuhi, hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i ke keiki i kāna makemake hou aku. Akā inā koi ke keiki ma hope o ka lawelawe ʻana i ka meaʻai e pani i ka pā - ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi.
- ʻO nā ala maʻalahi e hoʻoulu ai i ka ʻai ʻana, ʻo ia ka hoʻemi ʻana i nā ʻāpana, hoʻonui i ka wā ma waena o nā meaʻai, a i ʻole e hoʻonui i ka wai.
- ʻO nā meaʻono e hoʻopau i ka pōloli, no laila e hāʻawi wale ʻia ke keiki me ka ʻai ʻole i ka ʻono ma hope o ka ʻai ʻana.
- No ke keiki e "ala" i kona makemake, pono ia e neʻe hou aku. ʻAʻole paha e makemake ke keiki e ʻai inā e moe ʻo ia ma kahi moe i ka lā a pau.
- He mea nui e hōʻoia ʻaʻole makemake ke keiki e ʻai, akā hiki. ʻAʻole pilikia ka ʻai ʻole, akā inā ʻeha ke ʻai, pono ʻoe e ʻike koke i ke kauka.
