Crystal Nelson
Pafupifupi anthu mamiliyoni atatu aku Germany amavutika ndi vuto la kudya. Mpaka pano, zakhudza makamaka atsikana. Koma tsopano akatswiri akuwomba chenjezo: akazi opitirira zaka 30 akuyamba kutengeka kwambiri ndi kuwonda.
“Inde, ndinali ndi vuto la kudya!” Gundis Zámbó adapanga mitu yankhani ndi kuvomereza uku. Wowonetsayo adadwala bulimia kwa zaka 23. Mwachisawawa analowetsamo chakudya chambiri mwa iye yekha, ndikuchiponyanso pambuyo pake. Kwa iye, zonse zinali pa chakudya. Ndinali wakufa mkati, ndinalibenso moyo weniweni.
Kuvomereza kodabwitsa kwa mkazi wokhazikika, wopambana, wokongola. Mpaka pano, matenda a anorexia ndi bulimia amaonedwa kuti ndi matenda apamwamba a achinyamata. Pakalipano, komabe, amayi ochulukirapo kuposa 30 akugwera mu mania ochepa: Omwe ali okongola, achigololo - ndi ochepa kwambiri amakondedwa. Nyenyezi zimatsogolera njira: Victoria Beckham, ndipo mzere pamalopo, amatengedwa ngati msungwana wokongola komanso chithunzithunzi chapamwamba kwambiri. Nadja Abd El Farrag, yemwe anali wakale wa Bohlen, adakana kwa nthawi yayitali kuti ali ndi vuto la kudya. Ndipo ndi nyenyezi yaku Hollywood Angelina Jolie mutha kuwona momwe akucheperachepera.
Akazi amafuna kulanda unyamata wawo
“Dziko lathu masiku ano limakonda kwambiri unyamata. Akazi amafuna kulanda unyamata wawo ndi thupi lochepa thupi,” anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku United States, Dr. Ellen Schor Haimoff. “Kuonjezera apo, amaopa kuleka kusamba chifukwa thupi lawo likusintha, ndipo akunenepa. Ndipo iwo sangakhoze kuzilamulira izo. Choncho amayesetsa ndi mphamvu zawo zonse kuti akhale ochepa thupi.”
Anthu amene akhudzidwa ndi vutoli nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi vuto lalikulu. Ambiri nthawi zonse ankadzipeza kuti anali onenepa kwambiri ali achinyamata ndipo ankadya zakudya zopitirira malire mpaka kutaya thupi kunakhala chizolowezi. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Inge Mick wochokera ku "Cinderella", gulu la Munich pazakudya ndi anorexia anati: "Zaka 20 mpaka pambuyo pake, odwala kuyambira nthawi imeneyo amazunzidwanso."
Gundis Zámbó anaonanso mmene zimakhalira zovuta kuthawa matenda owonda: “Ndinaganiza kangapo kuti ndagonjetsa bulimia ndipo ndinalengeza monyadira. Koma ndinabwereranso.” Chifukwa chiyani adalowa mumsewu wocheperako? “Mukati mwa mtima, kudzikayikira kunandikuta. Kuopa kukhala wonenepa kwambiri motero osakwanira. Sindinadzikonde kwa zaka 23.”
Sabine L. (dzina losinthidwa ndi mkonzi) wakhala akulimbana ndi anorexia kwa zaka 30. “Pamene ndinkaphunzitsidwa ntchito yokonza mano, mnzanga wina ankandichitira zachipongwe mobwerezabwereza. Zinali zosapiririka. Panthawiyo ndinkafuna chilichonse - kuti ndisakhale mkazi," akutero mbadwa ya Bremen. Ndipo adachita izi: pomwe adadya pang'ono, mawonekedwe aakazi ochepa thupi lake adawonetsa.
Anthu omwe ali ndi bulimia sangathe kusangalala ndi ukazi wawo
Ali ndi zaka 22, anabwera ku chipatala koyamba. “Zitatero, ndinakhala bwino kwakanthaŵi. Koma nditangoyambanso kupanikizika, ndinasiya kudya.” Anavutika kwambiri panthaŵi imene anali ndi pakati paŵiri. “Chifukwa mwadzidzidzi ndinalephera kulamuliranso thupi langa.” Anawo atangosiya kuyamwa, matenda a anorexia anawapezanso. Mpaka amangolemera makilogalamu 49 - pa 1.72 m wamtali. “Sindinathe kudziletsa.”
Chinthu chimodzi, makamaka, chimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kutuluka: kukhala chete. Makamaka, amayi azaka zopitilira 35 nthawi zambiri sayerekeza kuvomereza kuti ali ndi vuto la kudya. Chifukwa chakuti sumachitanso zimenezo pausinkhu wawo,” akufotokoza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo wa “Cinderella” Ingrid Mick. Panopa pali magulu atatu a "35plus" pamagulu awo a zochita.
Kulemba kunali njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira Gundis Zámbó. M’buku lake iye anafotokoza za vuto lake m’njira yosakometseredwa kuti: “Lero ndachiritsidwa.” Sabine L. nayenso anaphunzira kulankhula momasuka ponena za anorexia yake: “Potsirizira pake ndikumva bwino, ndikhoza kusangalala ndi ukazi wanga.” Koma amadziwanso kuti: Ndi chizoloŵezi chimene ndimayenera kulimbana nacho mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo tsopano ndingathe.
