Emma Miller
Kungumnqweno oqhelekileyo wabaninzi bethu ukuthanda abantu. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukwazi kwangoko ukuba abanye abantu bayakuthanda.
Kodwa ukuba ubeka ingqondo yakho kuyo, unokuhlala uxela ukuba abantu bayakuthanda okanye abakuthandi. Sihlanganise amacebiso okukunceda uqinisekise ukuba abantu bayakuthanda.
Wazi njani ukuba abantu bayakuthanda - iimpawu ezilula
Usenokungaxelelwa ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uyathandeka. Nangona kunjalo, amagama awakhathali - kungcono ukuskena unxibelelwano olungasebenzisi magama. Zizimbo zomzimba, inkangeleko, uncumo, ukubamba okuya kuphendula umbuzo - ingaba indoda iyakuthanda na?
Wazi njani ukuba indoda iyakuthanda - funda ulwimi lomzimba wakho
Funda ukucacisa izijekulo zakhe - oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba umfana uyakuthanda. Ngokomzekelo, unokusasaza amahlombe akhe phambi kwakho, athathe umoya, okanye abeke iminwe yakhe kwibhanti yebhulukhwe - oku kubonisa umdla wakhe kuwe. Kukwakho nokujongana ngamehlo – le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuxelela ukuba umfana uyakuthanda ngokukujonga. Ukuba uyakuthanda, uya kukujonga de udibane namehlo akhe ubuncinane ixesha elifutshane.
Icebiso: Thembela kwi-intuition yakho - ukuba ikuxelela ukuba le ndoda okanye loo ndoda iyakuthanda, mhlawumbi iyakwenza. Kodwa musa ukuvumela imbono yakho ye-subjective ijike ubunyani.
Indlela indoda okuthandayo iziphatha ngayo - iimpawu zokuziphatha
- Ukhululekile kwaye ubambe ixesha lokusondela kuwe;
- Ukuncoma rhoqo kwaye afumane isizathu sokukuchukumisa;
- Ukujonga ngqo emehlweni akho, okanye akujonge ngokufihlakeleyo;
- Ufuna ukuba wedwa nawe rhoqo kwaye akubuze ngeentsuku;
- Uhlala enxibelelana nawe emva kwentlanganiso, kwaye akapheli, wongezwa kubahlobo bakho kwiintanethi zentlalo, uphendula ngokukhawuleza kwimiyalezo;
- Ngaba unovalo oluncinane, okanye uyazonwabisa kufutshane nawe;
Akaphazanyiswa nguwe kwaye ubonisa inyathelo kwaye ekugqibeleni - unyanisekile kuwe.
Ukuthetha ngokuchukumisa, phawula indlela umfana asabela ngayo ekuchukumiseni kwakho kwaye ubuyisela kangaphi ukuba wenza.
Kwaye nantsi indlela yokwazi ngezenzo zakho ukuba umfana uyakuthanda ngokulula. Ukuba uhlala ebonisa iimpawu zengqwalasela - ukusuka kwiintyatyambo ukuya kwizipho ezintle okanye izinto ezimangalisayo, ngoko impendulo ibonakala. Kwaye ukuba uvila ukukubhala okanye ukukubiza ubuncinane kanye ngosuku, ngoko apha, kwakhona, yonke into icacile.
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba lo mfana wayengumhlobo, kodwa ke kwavela ukuba akanayo kuwe kuphela iimvakalelo zobuhlobo.
Indlela yokwazi ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakuthanda - yintoni omele uyinikele ingqalelo
- Ukuchukumisa ngokungathi nje ngokungaqhelekanga;
- Ucinga ngokuthuthuzela kwakho – akushushu okanye akubanda kuwe;
- Uhleka abafana ohamba nabo kwaye uyazibuza ukuba uthanda bani;
- Ukumema rhoqo ukuba uphume. Ngamafutshane, uzama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nawe kangangoko kunokwenzeka;
- Kuwe, uhlala enxibelelana.
Ukongeza, nikela ingqalelo kumxholo weencoko zakhe nawe. Ukuba zihambelana nokuthandana, uthando, kunye nokuthandana, unokuqiniseka - unomdla kuwe, nokuba akabonisi. Kodwa, ukuba umhlobo womfana wakho ukucela icebiso ngenye intombazana, oko kuthetha ukuba ubona njengomhlobo.
