ער וועט נישט טוישן: גערלז ערדזשד נישט צו חתונה גייז וואָס טאָן ניט העלפן אַרום די הויז

Many girls hope that once they get a stamp on their passports, men will change and start helping them around the house. However, this is not the case.

The modern union of a man and a woman implies a division of responsibilities in everything, including the home. Moreover, if a man refuses to do something about the house, it is better not to build a serious relationship with him.

She noted that she has seen many women saying that their husband doesn’t do their share of the housework. The author urged women not to tolerate such behavior.

“If your boyfriend is not equally involved in housework, don’t marry him and condemn yourself to the life of a maid. Don’t think that as soon as you get married he’ll take over, and definitely don’t think that as soon as the baby is born he’ll step up,” the woman gave advice.

According to her, if a woman clearly communicated a problem to a man and he didn’t change his behavior, he certainly won’t change it when more responsibilities come into his life.

This topic turned out to be very relevant for many and caused a heated discussion and a wave of stories from the personal experience of many women. Some said they were disappointed and left their men if they did not help with household chores. Many managed to find men for whom such work was not a problem. Others said that if a man allows this kind of behavior, it’s the woman’s own fault.

“After 10 years of intense resentment and depression, ask yourself: “Why isn’t he helping anymore?” Accepting and putting up with his horrible behavior doesn’t exactly motivate these guys to change. They know you’re bluffing when you threaten to leave because why didn’t you leave 5 years ago when you didn’t have two kids together if it’s so unacceptable, you know?”, comments a user nicknamed tugboat on.